Tips For Successful Twenty Thirteen Resolutions

Write down your goals.  One of the best things I heard in twenty twelve was: your goals are only dreams until you write them down.  It is so true; you have to commit to your goals by writing them on paper.  My advice to when writing goals is to write them S.M.A.R.T.E.R.
       Specific - tell yourself exactly what you are going to do.
       Measurable - if you can't measure it, you  can't manage it.
       Action Oriented - use action words.
       Realistic - should push you but not break you.
       Trackable - establish concrete criteria for measuring the attainment of each goal.
       End Point - give yourself a clear and precise target to work toward.
       Rewarding - this goal has to be something YOU want, not something you think others want.

How I used to write my resolution: This year I'm going to get back in shape.  The same resolution but written SMARTER: I am going to Dead Lift 300 pounds on July 1st and do so by training my hamstrings, glutes and back 2 times/week.  After you've written your goals SMARTER and committed to them on paper, put the piece of paper somewhere you will see them every single day.  The more you see your goals, visualize yourself accomplishing them and enjoying the reward of your accomplishments, the less likely you are to be derailed.    


Don't try to change everything at once.  The best thing I read this year was: when making lifestyle changes, if you make 1 change at a time you have 85% odds of succeeding, if you make 2 changes at the same time your odds drop drastically to 35% and if you make 3 or more changes at once your odds are a measly 10%.  They say it takes 21 days for changes to become habit, so if your resolution includes a lifestyle change consider breaking your resolution down into 3 week resolutions and change 1 thing at a time.

If your resolution consists of going to the gym more, weight loss and eating better. this is what I would do:
       Weeks 1-3: Form you gym habit and commit.  During the first 3 weeks, you can not let yourself stray from your schedule!
       Weeks 4-6: Eliminate your worst eating habit (late night snacking, dining out, etc.) and replace it with a         healthier option (not snacking after dinner, cooking meals at home, etc.).
       Weeks 7-9: What was your second worst eating habit has now become your worst.  Eliminate it!
       Weeks 10-12: Switch up your workout routine: add weight training, add another day of exercise, find a new way of incorporating cardio.
       Weeks 13+: Keep making one change at a time until you have accomplished your goal.


Find a partner in crime.  Exercising is SO much easier when you aren't doing it alone.  If you can find someone of approximately the same fitness level who is working toward approximately the same goal, commit to working toward your goals together.  If you have someone to meet after work or bright and early Saturday morning, you are more likely to get to the gym so you don't let them down.  Can't find a partner in crime and you know you need someone to hold you accountable?  Hire a personal trainer.  I'm not going to preach training because that is not what this blog is about.  However, if you have questions regarding personal training you may contact me via email trainerjasonbelz@gmail.com  Even I need a partner in crime when it comes to training.  I can find any excuse not to go on that long training run if I'm doing it on my own.


Tell others your goals.  If you don't have a partner in crime but are looking for a little accountability and outside motivation; tell others, who are goal setters, what you are working toward.  DO NOT tell your goals to the assholes in your inner circle.  Assholes are: individuals in your inner circle who resist change, individuals who never seem to have anything positive to say, individuals that mock others outside of your inner circle who seem to be living a good life, etc.  I used to be an asshole.

If you are going to open yourself up, make sure you open yourself up to the supportive people in your life.  Find those, in any one of your circles, who are setting and accomplishing goals currently.  If you're reading this; I am now in your circle.  I would be happy to ((high five)) you as you accomplish one goal after another.     


Stay positive.  Making a life change or "working toward something greater" is not easy.  You may face rejection, be forced to re-plan, get forced off your routine or deal with an injury.  When this happens, it is very important to keep the positive energy moving forward and not to give into negativity.  Don't let this type of self talk creep into your head: "I knew I couldn't do it."  "I knew I was weak."  "So-and-so was right, it's not something for me."  Instead use self talk like: "I will find a new way."  "I'm strong enough to get through this."  

You create your attitude.  If you tell yourself you can, you will.  If you tell yourself you're happy, you will be.  If you tell yourself you're a strong individual, you are.  I got asked just the other day, "Do you ever have a bad day?  I mean, your always so positive and up beat.  Don't you just have a day where your like...blah?"  The answer is NO!  Why; because I don't let myself have a blah day and you can be the exact same way.


My last bit of advice is:  Do what works for you!  I don't know everything.  I don't have all the answers.  There are hundreds of ways to achieve greatness in your life; these are what work for me.  If you find something that works for you, keep doing it.  I hope you all have a fantastic New Year and a very successful twenty thirteen.  I can't wait to see what the New Year brings for all of us!  -jason b.

Lift Weights to Lose Weight, Ladies!

Ladies, I want to address a question that I know some of you are struggling with.  "Why am I having trouble losing weight?"  Sadly there is no "one size fits all" answer to this question.  However I have an answer that I think can work for most of you.

Weight Training!! 

"But I don't want to be big and bulky," you say.  You won't!!  Really, you won't look like the man-ladies you see on the covers of Muscle&Fitness and other body building magazines.  First thing, you do not have sufficient levels of testosterone in your bodies, like men do in theirs, to develop large muscle mass.  Second, if you were to have a slightly elevated level of testosterone, for a woman, it would still take years of training to see the results that you are afraid of seeing.  

Weight training is beneficial to sustained weight loss because muscle is energy dependent.  The cellular energy our muscles require is called glucose, which is a simple form of sugar that serves as fuel for the body.  Everything we eat is converted to glucose by our digestive system and after our digestive system has converted our food to glucose, our body will either use it as cellular energy or store it as body fat.  One way to keep the body from storing glucose as body fat is to have enough lean body mass, or muscle, to efficiently use all the glucose produced.  

Another benefit of weight training in regards to weight loss is an increase in your metabolism.  A pound of lean muscle burns about 4 times as many calories per day as a pound of body fat.  So promote and build lean muscle mass and you will burn more calories per day.

Your Weight Training Workout

Weight training doesn't have to be scary.  Weight training doesn't have to be fancy.  If you have never weight trained before, I would start you off with something like this...

Weight Training Program for Beginners

weight day, cardio day, rest day and repeat

Warm-up | 10 minutes

get your blood flowing and feel your body temp rising with full-body movements

- body weight squats, jump rope, arm circles, lunges, etc.

Balance Work | 2-3 minutes

balance is important to keep your body in natural alignment

Working Super Sets | 2 sets / 8-12 reps each

- the weight should challenge you for all reps

- if 12 reps can be performed without challenge, increase weight

- perform one set of ea. exercise (a, b, then c) before repeating one more time

- 45 second rest between sets

**please ask someone to show you proper form if you have never performed these exercises**

1a. Bench Push Ups

1b. Leg Press 

1c. Plank

2a. Cable Seated Rows

2b. Good Mornings -or- Dead Lifts

2c. Side Plank

3a. Standing Dumbbell Overhead Press

3b. Assisted Pull Ups -or- Cable Lat Pull Downs

3c. Leg Raises

Stretching and Foam Rolling | 15 minutes

keep your new muscles long and looking sexy!

This workout should get you in and out of the gym in no more then 60 minutes.  Weight training doesn't mean  hours spent at the gym and as you become more efficient, you may be able to finish in 45 minutes.  However, efficient DOES NOT mean skipping your stretching and foam rolling!! 

If you live in or near Overland Park, Kansas, I would be happy to have you as my guest, at the gym where I train, to show you how to properly perform these exercises.  You may contact me through private message on my facebook page (Trainer Jason).  I would love to help you "work toward something greater." -jason b.

I Turned 1!

I can't believe that I turned 1 as a trainer last week.  It is absolutely amazing how time flies when you don't have to go to work.  This has been by far the best year of my life.  (Well, the second best year.  The best year happened to be the year I married my best friend.)  Over the last year I've been able to: teach, motivate, push, empower, listen to, coach, piss-off (only while pushing weight plates across the gym floor) and ((high five)) so many fantastic people.

I would like to first thank all the individuals who I've been fortunate enough to work

with over the last three hundred sixty-five....

Angie V (1st Client and still kicking ass together), Amelia M, Angelina M, Courtney B, Molly C, Keri A, Jamie L, Stephanie P, Kim P, Rebecca P, Dave V, Mark W, Michelle E, Sonya W, Dalal E, Paula A, Vivian G, Jacqueline E, Nichole L, Patton W, Ryha K, Spencer G, Scott S, Susan S, Kelli B, David H, Sarah H, Bob F, John H, Wanda H, Robert C, Bill B, Richard R, Don D, Lauren B, Rebecca S, Alyson S, 

Maggie W, Beth H, Steve G, Josh L, Doug R, Sue S and I'm so sorry if I forgot someone.  

I would also like to thank all of you who have followed and supported me on facebook!!

As I begin looking forward to year number two, I can't help but be excited.  I've set a personal goal of running the "Rock the Parkway 1/2 Marathon" in April.  I have also let myself get talked into the "Miami Man 1/2 Iron Triathlon" in November (depending on how my knee handles my 1/2 marathon).  A couple goals for my blog:  I will write 14 new posts (this one doesn't count), I will grow to 75 followers (People that actually hit the follow button on my blog.  So please, if you haven't already, follow my blog.  I would also love if you shared all the posts you enjoy.), and I will hit 15,000 page views (I got 4,400 in year one.  I can get 10,600 in year two; right?).

I've also set one goal for my training: I will be a better trainer in twenty-thirteen than I was in twenty-twelve!

Again, I want to say "Thank you" to everyone who allowed me to be a part of their lives this past year.  It has been fantastic having you be a part of my life as I "work toward something greater."  -jason b.